You're perfect the way you are
Everyone, without exception, has once had something go wrong. We all at times, feel like we are nothing. The world can be huge at times and like it and everyone else forgot all about us. There are times when we feel hate or have been hated. Like we aren’t good enough for someone. Worried that we shouldn’t try something new. All have are own stories, experiences, memorie, and the truth is, pain is temporary; but the experiences are forever.
We aren’t always right. If any of us were, well, things would be much different in life. Failure is always there. Its not there so we will quit; but its there so we will keep trying. We would have no idea on how to try anything if we didn't know what not to do. Don’t make yourself think you will always fail because that would never be true. If you even thought that, you would just add another thing to what is wrong which is what we all wouldn’t want in the first place! Imagine that. The fear of failing is always there too. Never listen to it unless you actually want end up loosing.
When you're feeling down, don’t give up. You’ll never know what tomorrow will be like if you don’t try and you give up! Sure there are times when things go wrong. If they do, its not like they always will. Have the courage to prove yourself wrong by keeping yourself going and trying. Only then will you see that you can go on.
There always is something more to find. We never know until we search for it.
The times when we are down, remember that it’s not your fault!!! Don’t blame yourself for things!!!!! Taking responsibility is one thing but blame is another. Most of the time, there isn’t need to blame anyone at all! You can get into the habit of thinking that everything that happens is because of yourself. That you made it wrong. That you are awful. No! You aren’t!!!!!!! Remember that.
The weight of the world on your shoulders can crush anyone. But if you think that no one cares for you; that everyone hates you, you're wrong. People DO care. Everywhere you are, there is someone who cares. It doesn’t matter who you are. People do care! And they always will. No matter what.
Also, you’ll never know until you try. There are good times. Not only the bad. Things CAN be great if you make them to be. Last of all, with hate, love, joy, sorrow, anger alike, you are how you are, and that’s perfect and always will be. Everyone is perfect and just remember that. There is nothing better than you.
I've found that article at some online message board. It provides a very good read after a bad day. But well, reading is one thing. I'm not sure if i can actually change my thinking into such a positive way, though I hope i do. Well, I guess the most important thing is that I should stop hating myself for being imperfect and start looking on the better side of me and be glad of it....hmm, lets see if i can actually find a better side of me.
We aren’t always right. If any of us were, well, things would be much different in life. Failure is always there. Its not there so we will quit; but its there so we will keep trying. We would have no idea on how to try anything if we didn't know what not to do. Don’t make yourself think you will always fail because that would never be true. If you even thought that, you would just add another thing to what is wrong which is what we all wouldn’t want in the first place! Imagine that. The fear of failing is always there too. Never listen to it unless you actually want end up loosing.
When you're feeling down, don’t give up. You’ll never know what tomorrow will be like if you don’t try and you give up! Sure there are times when things go wrong. If they do, its not like they always will. Have the courage to prove yourself wrong by keeping yourself going and trying. Only then will you see that you can go on.
There always is something more to find. We never know until we search for it.
The times when we are down, remember that it’s not your fault!!! Don’t blame yourself for things!!!!! Taking responsibility is one thing but blame is another. Most of the time, there isn’t need to blame anyone at all! You can get into the habit of thinking that everything that happens is because of yourself. That you made it wrong. That you are awful. No! You aren’t!!!!!!! Remember that.
The weight of the world on your shoulders can crush anyone. But if you think that no one cares for you; that everyone hates you, you're wrong. People DO care. Everywhere you are, there is someone who cares. It doesn’t matter who you are. People do care! And they always will. No matter what.
Also, you’ll never know until you try. There are good times. Not only the bad. Things CAN be great if you make them to be. Last of all, with hate, love, joy, sorrow, anger alike, you are how you are, and that’s perfect and always will be. Everyone is perfect and just remember that. There is nothing better than you.
I've found that article at some online message board. It provides a very good read after a bad day. But well, reading is one thing. I'm not sure if i can actually change my thinking into such a positive way, though I hope i do. Well, I guess the most important thing is that I should stop hating myself for being imperfect and start looking on the better side of me and be glad of it....hmm, lets see if i can actually find a better side of me.
posted by Garry at 12:26 AM
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